Thursday, September 19, 2013

Summer Reading - Part Two

If I didn't lose you yesterday with that tall stack of reading material, I'm glad you've returned for part two.  Don't worry, there isn't a part three!  In working on these posts, I've found it's almost as much fun to go back and think about each book as it was to read them.  Sharing my thoughts is like having a one sided book discussion.  When someone comments and I can respond, it's like having an online book club.  Facebook seems to work well for that.  I've enjoyed our conversations. Thanks for indulging me!  All titles are linked to Amazon, just in case you want to read more about them or make a purchase. 
Now, to finish this up- once more, from bottom to top:

*For Times of Trouble-  Another "spiritual book", this time by Elder Holland.   Who has ever listened to Elder Holland give a talk and not loved it?  He's just the best!  This book is filled with his thoughts on selected Psalms and the artwork is absolutely beautiful.  This is one that I'm sure I'll pull from the bookshelf again and again. 

*Living a Covenant Marriage - Encouragement and great counsel for those desiring to have a marriage last forever.  Even though I've had this book for years, I'd only skimmed over it's contents.  One thing I've been trying to do is work a book I already have in my personal library into my reading rotation.  My husband recently asked me if I was really going to reread all these books that I have stashed throughout my house.  Truthfully, I haven't done much of that, because I'm always wanting to read something new.  But if a book is worthy of taking up precious space in my house, it really should be one that passes that test.  As I reread books, I ask myself, "Do I love this book more than I did the first time I read it?"  If the answer is yes, it stays.  If not, I probably won't ever read it again and I need to make room for better selections, so out it goes.  I think it's a good plan.  This book is a keeper.  Written by a number of experts on marriage, each chapter is worthy of serious study.  How's this for good doctrine?
" A person needs to look within himself or herself first and make sure his or her heart is right with God before attempting to change a spouse.  Pride on the part of one or both marital partners is a major contributor to unresolved differences, primarily because individuals who are selfish or proud will not repent or make changes that could improve the relationship.  Humility, repentance, and a willingness to apologize are indicators of genuine discipleship and charity and are an essential ingredient to achieving a truly Christlike relationship.   Perhaps the greatest charity comes when we are kind to each other, when we don't judge or categorize someone else, when we simply give each other the benefit of the doubt or remain quiet.  Charity is accepting someone's differences, weaknesses, and shortcomings; having patience with someone who has let us down; or resisting the impulse to become offended when someone doesn't handle something the way we might have hoped.  Charity is refusing to take advantage of another's weakness and being willing to forgive someone who has hurt us.  Charity is expecting the best of each other."
After thirty two years of marriage, my husband and I, don't have this thing totally figured out.  Marriage can be hard sometimes, and that's all there is to it.  It takes constant work. 

*$aved- The subtitle reads, "How I Quit Worrying About Money and Became the Richest Guy in the World."  This was an unusual read.  I don't even know where I came across this book, but it sure gave me some things to think about.  The author answers questions such as: How does money really work?  How does the financial industry literally create money out of thin air?  How can a bankrupt society move forward?  How can people live below their means and find happiness and contentment, while living in a consumer and debt driven society?   And the one question that I thought was the most interesting and worthy of real contemplation- 
How many people take the time to consider if any particular purchase is worth not just the money, but the portion of their life represented by the money?  I agree with many of the principles in this book, even if I did get a little bogged down with the Economics 101 chapter.  I could tell he was really trying to explain a confusing subject in as gentle a way as possible, but my eyes start to glaze over when listening to people talk about the Federal Reserve and GDP growth.  It's just not my thing.

*The Road to Assisi- After listening to Michael Wilcox speak on St. Francis of Assisi at Education Week, I decided I wanted to learn more about this famous Christian.  According to Brother Wilcox, St. Francis is one of those 10 Great Souls he wants to meet in Heaven.  This essential biography was informative and interesting.  Francis loved the Lord and wanted more than anything to live as Jesus taught his disciples.  Walking away from his family wealth and taking on a vow of poverty, He never intended to found a religious movement, but he did.  After learning more about him, I understand why he was and continues to be beloved by disciples of Christ.  

*The Sandburg Treasury- This book included Rootabaga Stories, Prairie Town Boy( an autobiography of Sandburg's early years), Wind Song and Early Moon (an anthology of Sandburg's poetry) and Abe Lincoln Grows Up.  I love "kid lit" and usually read it while I work out on the treadmill.  Because I live near the Carl Sandburg Home and it's one of my favorite places to while away the day, I'm inspired to become more familiar with his writing.
I enjoyed reading about his childhood years, growing up in Illinois and how life on the prairie influenced his writing, especially his poetry.  
Carl loved telling stories and believed American children should have some suited to their ideals and surroundings.  Rootabaga Stories are about simple people and common objects.  They are completely nonsensical and the quicker you figure that out the easier it becomes to give yourself up to spending time in Rootabaga Country.  Having seen some of these stories acted out in the summer playhouse, I enjoyed reading the complete collection.  Although, some of them are just plain weird.  My personal favorite is The Wedding Procession of the Rag Doll and the Broom Handle and Who Was In It.
*Katherine Paterson Treasury included  Bridge to Terabithia, The Great Gilly Hopkins and  Jacob Have I Loved.  I couldn't pick my favorite from these, but since they were all contained in one volume, I'll just say this was my favorite "kid lit" selection of the summer.  I know I'd seen the movie form of a least one of the these, but it does not do the story justice.  I loved these books and really, everyone should read them.  Because they deal with real life, coming of age issues, that we can all learn from or relate to in some way.  Delightful characters, delightful books.

* Rascal- Making a Difference By Becoming An Original Character  This was a nonfiction selection about great achievers and what makes them willing to step out of line and pursue their dreams, not necessarily conforming to mainstream behavior.
"Rascals are known by what they do. Their unique character produces fruit different from that of the vast majority of people. They are unique, but not for the sake of uniqueness. They don't conform, but not for the sake of nonconformity. They are rebellious, but not for the sake of rebellion.  They sometimes become famous and receive recognition, but not for the sake of fame or accolades.  Rather, they seem to respond to the calling of an inner voice; one that stands for principle and justice.  They commit to their beliefs. They may sacrifice their peace and affluence, their lives and fortunes, but never their sacred honor.  Rascals embolden those around them and attract others who aspire to such heights of courage and character"
This quote worthy book was full of ideas that made me think about qualities and characteristics common among great people.  A good mentoring book.

*To Try Men's Souls is a historical fiction (love these!), taking place in a crucial point in American history.  George Washington, Thomas Paine and others come to life as these patriots fight for independence.  I was so into the characters, I could feel the pain of the winter winds cutting through them as they prepared to cross the Delaware.  I could sense the despair among the soldiers, who were cold and hungry and just wanted to be home with their families.  And the courage... wow, the courage that these people possessed.  It was a great book and after hearing the author, William Forstchen speak (think One Second After, you know the book that scared the crap out of you- yeah, that William Forstchen), I knew I wanted to read this book.  He's also written fictional books on Gettysburg, Pearl Harbor and other periods in history.   I'm going to have to check those out too.

* A Tree Full of Angels This is the second book I've read by this author.  My first introduction was with Seven Sacred Pauses, a book I keep close by, so I can pick it up and read from it whenever I feel the desire to strengthen my ability to pray with real meaning.  Written by a Catholic who is a member of a monastic community, I love her thoughts on spiritual awakening.  A Tree Full of Angels is more of the same.  A little booklet with lots of inspiration.  I've underlined, not just sentences, but paragraphs of wise words by this author.  Whenever I read spiritual books by authors not of my faith, I know there will be things I won't agree with from a doctrinal standpoint.  But I've found when I am searching for truth, I can find it all around me.  This book is an example of practices that can bring us closer to God.  I pick and choose the ones that speak to me.

Thanks for sticking with me through these last two posts.  Reading is one of my passions, so books seem to be a part of many of my discussions.  One of the things I love about this season of life, is that I have time to read.  So, my bookish friends,  I'd love to hear what you've been reading.  Do you have a book that's really impacted you in a positive way?  A favorite from your summer reading?  Please share!   

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Summer Reading - Part One

As I've been looking back on my summer, I realize I've had my nose in a book much of the time.   Aside from my trip to Utah at the end of May, I didn't do any traveling and since it rained most of the rest of the summer, I was indoors a lot.  There are worse things than getting lost in words, so I'm not complaining (not much anyway).  Okay, I guess I did my fair share of whining about the overly abundant rain, but other than that...

I like to read books on all kinds of subjects, and usually have at least three or four going at a time.  Depending on my mood, I'll indulge in fiction, nonfiction, biographies, etc., sometimes all in the same day.  I think that might be a little unusual, but it works for me.  So this summer I've gone through a hefty stack and I have my favorites.  Since I get most of my recommendations from friends and blogs that I visit, maybe some of my reading would be of interest to you, too. Goodreads is a great idea, but I just can't remember to update my page.  I'm glad my friends are better at it than I am, because some of my reading comes from their ratings. I've linked my favorites to Amazon, in case you decide you just have to have one of them.
Starting at the bottom and moving up- 

*Behind the Beautiful Forevers - This narrative nonfiction is the story of a makeshift settlement near luxury hotels in Mumbai. The author spent three years gathering her information from families who survive by sorting the garbage wealthy travelers leave behind. I enjoy learning about other cultures and I really know little about India, so that's why I picked this one.  It was heartbreakingly sad and reminded me of how grateful I am for my comfortable life.
   
* Homemade Pantry-  You can go here to read about this book.  It's  the first selection for my cookbook project.  And if you don't want to check out the link, just know I loved it!

*  A Whole New Mind - This is my favorite nonfiction book of the summer.  From the back cover:
" Lawyers. Accountants. Software engineers. That's what Mom and Dad encouraged us to become.  They were wrong.  Gone is the age of "left-brain" dominance. The future belongs to a different kind of person with a different kind of mind: designers, inventors, teachers, storytellers - creative and empathetic "right- brain" thinkers whose abilities mark the fault line between who gets ahead and who doesn't." 
This left-brain dominate girl, found this book fascinating reading.  I loved the suggestions at the end of each chapter, giving ideas on how to strengthen the right side of your brain.  Because even though you might not be born this way, you can train yourself to use the right side of the brain more often.  I think this would be great reading for every parent and teacher. My husband is seriously right-brain dominate and all our children lean that way as well.  It will probably be good for them that they took after their dad in this area!

*Open Heart, Open Home- A classic book on Christian hospitality.  Sprinkled liberally with scripture, this was one of the "spiritual books" I read this summer.  I like to keep one of those going at all times.  The author says, "Hospitality doesn't try to impress, but to serve."  That's the main idea that I took away from this book.  I enjoyed it.

*Cold Tangerines - Here's my favorite "spiritual book".  This was a new author to me and I loved her!  "A collection of stories about God, and about life, and about the thousands of daily ways in which an awareness of God changes and infuses everything."  That's what this book is all about.   I found myself smiling and nodding my head in agreement as I read it.  I really didn't want it to end.  Loved it!

* The House at Rose Creek - This was my pick for favorite fiction.  Does it matter that the author is a family friend and used to babysit my children?  Nope!  I would've loved it anyway.  But how fun it's been to share in the excitement of this debut novel.   It's sweet and tender, yet speaks to the importance of faith and relationships.  It's really a great book.  We read this for our book club meeting and had the author come and discuss it with us.  It was a lovely evening.  You can get to know Jenny a little better here.
* Living Your Covenants Every Day-  I picked this book up when I recognized the author as one of the instructors I most enjoyed,  when I last attended Education Week at BYU.  She was a motivating speaker and I've adopted her "30 Day Challenges" for myself over the past year.  One of these days I'm going to post about those.   I was excited to see many of her thoughts from Education Week included in this book.  It's a good reminder of the importance of living our covenants daily and she gives lots of ideas on practical ways to do that.

*Wonderstruck- This was a really great "spiritual book" too.  Maybe it ties with Cold Tangerines as one of my favorites.  I enjoy authors who invite the reader to awaken to the wonders of God in their lives.  I've read many books that speak to this subject and each time I do, it helps me to improve a little on this discipline.  

*Life is So Good-  I like to throw a biography in my reading rotation on a regular basis.  There is so much we can learn from reading about other people's lives.  This one was wonderful.  I had read it a couple of years ago, but since it was a book club selection for our group, I reread it, and loved it even more the second time around.  George Dawson tells his story of learning to read at 98, and reflects upon his life and the lessons he learned along the way.  I've marked my book up, underlining what I've called "Georgisms" or nuggets of wisdom from George.  A most inspiring and feel good book!  Read it.  You'll love it.

* All Quiet on the Western Front- While  thrifting with my sister Cindy one day, she came across this book and asked me if I had read it.  I said no, and she tossed it in my shopping basket, saying, "It's good.  You need to read it."  Okay.  It was only fifty cents.  I probably should've had some idea of what I was getting myself into, but I was clueless.  If you don't want a spoiler- stop now.  This was the most depressing book I think I've ever read.  It was good, but utterly depressing.  When I finished it late one evening, I sent Cindy a text and said, "Next time you want to suggest a book for me to read, could you find one a little less depressing?  Maybe one where every character doesn't die!"  It's a war book.  What did I think was going to happen?  She was right though, I did need to read it.  And she never said it was an uplifting book...

I have a few more, but this post is long, so we'll finish this up next time.

Monday, September 16, 2013

How To Celebrate a Birthday (and make a Scarecrow)

Best Buddies...
Birthdays are fun and especially so when you're celebrating with a friend.  Each year, Tara and I, plan something extra ordinary to do to make memories on our special day.  Gifts are forgotten over the years, but time spent together, well, the memories from those days lasts much longer.  Our past birthdays have found us biking, hiking, making pasta, strolling through the Arboretum and eating at great restaurants.  Every celebration includes some good food- that's a given.  This year Tara wanted to make scarecrows for our gardens.  It's something we've talked about doing for a while.  We just needed a time to make it happen and today was the day!  Last week, I went thrifting to find overalls and hats.  Our bishop donated the colorful shirts for us to use. (He's the best!)  Tara picked up a few supplies at Walmart and we scrounged around our houses for old gloves and pantyhose.   
Tara's husband Larry (the handiest of handymen!), made these awesome frames which we used as the skeleton to build upon.  The hips turned out to be a little too wide for our overalls,  
so Tara headed into the workshop and came out with this.  I have to admit I was a little nervous as she said, "This is the first time I've ever used a power tool!"  Oh, great.  I didn't want a trip to the emergency room to be a part of this celebration. Turns out, I had nothing to worry about.  She worked that thing like a pro.
We used plastic bags for stuffing and even though we had a lot of bags, it wasn't enough.  We had to stop and go raid the recycling bin at Walmart in order to finish them.  We found out it takes A LOT  of bags to stuff two scarecrows.
We used twine to tie off the bottom of the legs and arms and then stuffed the bags into the clothing.
We cut the legs off a pair of pantyhose and tied the top together to make the head.
Setting this onto the frame, we stuffed it with plastic bags, tying the neck off at the bottom.  Next, we covered the pantyhose head with a piece of burlap. 
A quick search online, gave us plenty of ideas for facial features.
With the hot glue gun, we gave them a face and a personality.  This was the fun part. 
I felt like I was doing surgery on my little man.
We finished them off with hats, gloves and boots, stuffing straw at all the connecting parts and in their pockets.
They turned out so stinking cute, we could hardly stand it!
Howie and Sylvester
Yep!  Best buddies.  They're ready for the garden.  And me and Tara, well we were ready for lunch.  We had the biggest, most delicious subs you've ever seen and Sweet Frog for dessert.  Yum! 
Happy, Happy Birthday Tara!

Monday, September 9, 2013

Late Summer : Daybook Entry


Outside my window: Late afternoon sun shining through green trees.  An assortment of objects that have been "retrieved" by the dogs are scattered over the front yard.

I am wearing: Cropped khakis with paisley pattern top.  Lace up shoes - doctor's orders.  I'm putting real effort into trying to to heal the tendonitis in my achilles tendon.  After dealing with it for over a year, I finally went to the doctor.  One look at the "cute" sandals I was wearing and he said, "We need to talk shoes."  So now, I'm stretching and icing and wearing better shoes (most of the time).

I am listening to: The hum of the washer and dryer and the fan running very loudly on my computer.  Another thing I've been putting off- buying a new laptop.  But I think the time has finally come.  I would be more excited if they didn't cost so much.  Big investments are hard to make.

I am thankful for: Cooler days, loaded apple trees, a new light in my family room, time spent with family and good friends and a wedding for the future.  Autumn is definitely just around the corner and I am so ready for all that means.  Sweaters, fall colors, pumpkins and apples, walking in the woods and sitting by the fireplace.  

Around the house: We've been working on some home improvement projects, mainly lighting.  We have a new chandelier in the bedroom and family room.  New lights in the kitchen (even though a recent thunderstorm just blew out three of our track lights!), outside lighting on the driveway and in the carriage house.  The  chandeliers are the most exciting, because Mark found them stored under a stairwell in an antique store, bought them for a killer price, brought them home and painted them. They turned out beautifully.  I just wish I had a before and after picture.  This is what it looks like now.
 In the garden: I am So. Over. The. Garden.  Tired of weeding and fighting the diseases and the pests.  It was not a good year for many things (like tomatoes and squash), yet we were blessed with plenty of beans, okra, onions, garlic, beets and peppers.  Because of my garden fatigue, I'm taking a break from fall planting, with the exception of garlic.  I know I will probably regret it, but I just can't muster the strength right now.  I still have sweet potatoes to harvest and I'm excited about that.  I planted a lot of plants, so I'm hoping for a good yield.  Last year was my first time to grow  Beauregard sweet potatoes and we loved them!  Ate them all winter long.  
I'm not a fan of: sleepless nights.  My body and spirit love early mornings and those nights when I just can't fall asleep on time, really mess up my morning schedule

I am loving: New music from Old North State.  It's good stuff, and they're heading to NJ to record in a few days.  Can't wait to hear the new CD. 

I am hoping for: some way to carve out time for a vacation with my husband.  Owning a small business isn't always what it's cracked up to be.  We are grateful for work, but I'd be grateful for a vacation.  Hoping that will happen soon.

I am reading:  "A Whole New Mind"by Daniel Pink. Very interesting reading about Right Brainers and their influence on the future.   "Little Women" by Louisa May Alcott is my treadmill reading these days.  I just love this book.  I don't really want to hurry though it, but when I finish I will watch the movie again (the one with Wynona Rider).  "Ten Great Souls I Want to Meet in Heaven" by Michael Wilcox.  What can I say?  It's Michael Wilcox and I love everything he writes!  And "Cooked" by Michael Pollan.  I really like this author too, but this book is a little different from his others.  I'm just getting started with it, but so far, I'm intrigued.  I'm going to be doing a post soon about favorites from my summer reading.

I am creating: Still knitting dishcloths.  I know, I know. It's time to move on.   But I had some birthday presents to make.  My next project, which I hope to start soon will be a hat- my first hat.  I also have fabric for sewing a skirt, but I need to get a pattern.   Usually one chooses a pattern and then the fabric, but it's too complicated to explain.  Anyway, this makes me nervous, so I'm dragging my feet.

I am learning: How to take better pictures.  I finally did it.  I signed up to take a class at the college.  Even though it's terrifying when your photos are projected on a screen in front of the class, I'm learning so much!  Now it remains to be seen how my pictures will improve, but after three weeks, I'm looking at my photography completely different.  And I've been playing with dials and buttons on my camera and moving off of automatic. Aren't you proud? Because I am!

From the kitchen: Well, I'm having lots of fun trying out recipes for my cookbook project.  The pastry crust is perfect.  I will never look for another pastry recipe, because this one works so well and tastes so amazing!  The toaster strudels were yummy.  The cheese crackers had a nice taste, but didn't turn out as I had hoped.  I'm going to give those another try and then I will be ready to attempt the lasagna, making my own mozzerella, pasta and sauce.  This one has me pretty excited.  I also made blueberry scones while my sister was here for a visit.   She loves them!   It's that time of year to make apple butter and I'm ready. Nothing smells as good as apple butter thickening in the crock pot.

I am pondering:  "Sometimes doing the most important thing eternally, doesn't look like you're doing anything noticeably."    Ann Voskamp             
 Ann's writing always makes me think deeply.

Living my faith: I finished my yearly reading of  The Book of Mormon.  Early this year....   I'm not quite sure what I'm ready to dig into next. I'm thinking, a study of the book of Revelation (how's that for some light reading?).    I gave a talk this past Sunday in Sacrament meeting.  That's always a little scary, but it helps when you have smiling faces and people who love you in the congregation.  I attended a wonderful Women's Conference this weekend and am working on a Primary Leadership Training meeting coming up in October.  But I'm most excited about Time Out for Women in a few weeks.  I'll be going with three friends to Columbia for a weekend of fun, laughter and sweet fellowship.  It will be a spiritual feast as we'll be taught by amazing speakers.  Oh, and General Conference is coming up too!

A few plans for the rest of the week: Tomorrow I'll join our little Book of Mormon reading group at church, which is turning out to be a great experience.  I have my photography class on Wednesday and the fair is in town.  I hope to go and walk through the exhibits, see the animals and eat some horribly, bad for you, fair food. 

Monday, September 2, 2013

Glory Comes Streaming From the Table of Daily Life

First Monday counting...
                                    when I share entries from my Gratitude Journal
3136- the snapping of beans
3137- watching a father and son clean guns together
3138- picking blackberries at Tara's
3139- cool evening breezes, hinting of fall
3140- mission calls
3141-clean dogs
3142- family reunions
3143- poetry on the treadmill
3144- a beautiful jar of lemon flavored olive oil
3145- a renewed feeling of hope
3146- light in the family room
3147- a bouquet of fresh dill on the kitchen counter
3148- making play dough in fun colors
3149- walking along and having a little hand reach up and take mine
3150- soft morning breezes on an upturned face
3151- sizzling ribs on the grill
3152-- walks with the dogs
3153- reading scriptures with a circle of friends
3154- a long soak in a scented tub
3155- a beautiful engagement ring and hopes of a wonderful future
3156- coke floats
3157- watching Dillon and Jantzen perform
3158- less rain
3159- snapping photographs
3160- a dinner date with my husband
3161- a perfect pie crust recipe!
3162- back to school excitement
3163- helping the missionaries teach the gospel to a friend
3164- marbles in a jar
3165- discovering a new author- that I love!
3166- honest conversations
3167- receiving a letter in the mail
3168- a book club meeting with lots of friends 
and a brand new author
3169- a clean refrigerator
3170-apples on display

I love these thoughts from a book I read recently.  
"Will I be there?  Will I be there with my open eyes?  Will I
unwrap the gift of the ordinary? Will I gather crumbs?  Will
I harvest angels hidden in those crumbs?  Glory comes streaming
from the table of daily life.  Will I be there to catch the rays or will
I remain blind to the holy because I'm too busy to see?  Am I too 
busy with my own agenda to let God's agenda bless me?"
Macrina Wiederkehr